Advice dating man virgin
Women “don’t want to have to teach a guy how to chew his food” and all that.Many men would rather go without sex entirely than face the supposed indignity of learning at the hands (and mouth and…) of another.
If you’re abstinent by choice (always with the implication that you’re not, not really…) then you’re a religious nut or someone who’s overly in love with the idea of Their First (and thus a potential bunny-boiler).
That, in turn, helps contribute to and reinforce a lot of unnecessary shame and even as much social constructs…
which is why it’s important to interrogate them and realize just how nonsensical they really are.
If someone’s a virgin for long then they’re just a ticking time-bomb waiting to explode, a la Elliot Rodger and his fan club in various incel communities.
Ironically enough, the incel (or “involuntarily celibate”) community are among the most vociferous of the people who spread this fear.